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I'll Go First

Rachel used to go first when her little brother was nervous. As she opens her own bookshop, Finn wants to return the favour.

I'll Go First

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The brief

For my older sister Rachel, from Finn. When I was scared of the deep end she climbed back into the pool beside me. She waited outside my new school until the bell. Now she is nervous about opening her bookshop. I have kept the invitation and I will be her first customer. I want to thank her and give her a bit of courage.

Rachel used to take the first step so Finn could follow. When her bookshop opens, he can return the favour. The song lets him thank her for what she did and promise something practical in return.

What would you put in yours?

Remember a time they stayed beside you when something was difficult. Say what they did, however small, and how you would like to show up for them now.

You can say you are proud of someone without pretending they have stopped being nervous. One remembered kindness, followed by what you want to do for them now, gives the song somewhere to go.

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The first listen

A childhood photo would suit the reveal page for a song like this. Send it before their big day, when they have a moment to listen, or put the printed QR card inside a good-luck card.

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Lyrics

I stood beside the deep end With my toes curled round the tile You climbed back down the ladder Though you've been swimming for a while You didn't tell me, "Don't be scared" Or make the others wait You held your hands above the water Said, "Look, I'm right this way"

My sister, three years older I thought you knew it all

I'll go first, Rachel Like you did for me You don't have to look convinced You don't have to make a speech When you turn the sign to open Take a look and there I'll be I'll go first, Rachel Leave the first step to me

The morning of my new school You walked me right up to the gate I said you didn't have to stay Then turned around to check your face You pointed to your watch and smiled As if you had all day You waited till the bell had gone Before you walked away

I don't know if I told you then So let me tell you now instead

I'll go first, Rachel Like you did for me You don't have to look convinced You don't have to make a speech When you turn the sign to open Take a look and there I'll be I'll go first, Rachel Leave the first step to me

Your name is on the window now The books are on the shelves You called to say, "What if they don't come?" I said, "I'll come myself" I've kept your invitation And I've got Saturday free There's room between your shelves for two If you could use the company

I'll go first, Rachel Like you did for me I'll buy a book I haven't read And ask you what you think When you turn the sign to open Take a look and there I'll be I'll go first, Rachel Leave the first step to me

You were there before the bell I'll be there before you turn the key